Nov 2, 2010

Guys need more hugs.

I came up with that theory last year, when I was very close to a certain guy and we told each other a lot of things.

Guys, they don't hug other guys much, especially in the way girls hug each other, because with guys it seems kinda gay. And guys don't give other guys long hugs; they're the kinds that count and really make you feel loved (as a friend).

Hugs are a physical reassurance. Everyone needs hugs. Yes, there are the Words Of Affirmation that count too, but the physical touch can help a lot emotionally.

So yes, and when a girl hugs a guy it might seem a little inappropriate, but it's totally fine if both of you (and the people around you) know that you only really see each other as friends and never anything more! Right?

So yes we girls should give the guys more hugs, since they won't be getting much of them from their brudders.

KLOLBYE

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