french guy takes me to coney island the night i miss my flight; carnival lights and screams amidst dark
we walk past a burlesque advert
"burlesque is nice to watch, for girls also"
"no really, the women are not naked. and also it's not like a strip show, where the men put the money in her (undies), you pay before you go in, so none of that weird stuff."
"yeah, i always found that super degrading for the woman."
"i think it's more degrading for the men. because they fall for it. the woman understands the whole situation. she is in full control."